I’ll be honest, I’ve written a lot of stupid bullshit here in the past, and going back over it, as well as the various reactions I’ve had to it make me feel like I’ve misrepresented myself somewhat. I know I might come across as a little bit angry, maybe a bit hateful and a little superior, but I’m not any of those things. I feel like I need to set the record straight on a few matters. Sounds ominous right? Let’s read on...
I don’t like the idea of being above anything or anyone. I know sometimes it might seem as though I see myself as some sort of moral or intellectual authority but I honestly don’t think of myself that way and I don’t say the things I say to make myself out as some fucking hero; I’ve never set out to try to make myself look good or to make anyone else feel bad. I realise I might come across as a bit superior at times but all it is is that I have things that I believe in and care about very deeply and I think it’s important to communicate this. Maybe I go about it in the wrong way sometimes, but I wouldn’t be the way I am if I didn’t care. The thing is that I’m a pretty intelligent guy and this is the only way I know to live my life; now that’s not something I’m particularly proud or ashamed of, it’s just another fact. Besides I really don’t think it’s what’s important. So what is?
Let’s think for a second. It’s easy to get the idea that you are the most important thing in the fucking world but the fact is that you are not. Our lives, our thoughts and feelings and actions and personalities are completely inconsequential on a universal scale. The vastness of your insignificance is completely incomprehensible to you or me or anyone. Just look out your window and think about how fucking small you are. Does this mean that nothing we do is important? Absolutely not. The fact that our lives are so tiny negates any lofty ideas we might have about a universal meaning and puts the utmost importance on the way you live your life right now, this very moment and every moment. You have to try to do the right thing in every situation you find yourself in because at that point, that situation is all you have and it’s all that really matters. There’s no bright future ahead of you when all your wrongdoings are redeemed and all is forgiven, you have to be as good as you possibly can be right now. And I know it’s hard. Life is not easy and it’ll always leave you frustrated, dissatisfied and confused, but it’s no solution to resort to hatred. No good can come of blaming the world or the people around you for the shortcomings in your life, and no good can come of giving in to the adversities you’ll face every fucking day of your life. I think that’s why I do what I do, because I can’t stand the idea of giving up on what I believe in. And if it makes me seem like an asshole, or if it makes me unpopular with anyone, then at least I’ve reached out and tried to make a connection instead of just keeping my shit inside. I think there’s too much of that and I’d love to see a world where we could all give up on fear and regret, and just do and say what we think is right without being afraid of the consequences. I’m not trying to say that’s the way I live all the time or that I’m right because of it, I’m trying to say that I try.
I think that it’s only though total honesty and openness that we can ever form the kind of relationships that we all need to help us through our lives, and to answer the question I posed earlier, those relationships are what’s really important. It doesn’t matter even half a shit whether you’re the smartest, or the toughest or the prettiest person or whatever, the important thing is how you interact with, and impact on the lives of the people around you. Whether it’s your best friends who love you and support you and challenge you every day, or your family who raised you up into the person you are, or even just the one guy or girl that can always make you feel happy and good about yourself no matter what, these are the things you need to be fucking grateful for. I’m lucky; I have all of these things and more, and even though I act like a dick sometimes I appreciate those people more than anything. More than you’ll ever know. That’s all I’ve got to say. Merry Christmas.